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What’s this swinging thing all about then?
Swinging in one form or other has been around since the beginning of our recorded time and has had different social acceptance throughout its time. In the 60’s and 70’s this adult recreational activity was pretty much the in thing to do and continuing to today is an extremely popular and enjoyable activity to be involved with.
Swinging is an engagement in sexual activity with someone other than your spouse or partner but with the full consent and knowledge of that person.
The most common form of swinging is male and female couples who will meet for recreational sex and sometimes ongoing sexual/social relationships. Couples who only like to play with a single female or single male are not as popular as couple to couple meetings but are still very frequent in the scene.
Swinging is also known as “the scene” or “the lifestyle” and can take on many different forms like swingers clubs, private parties, organised meets and dogging.
Is swinging just about sex?
Even thought the majority of swinging encounters will end up in sex, it is not all about the sex. To a lot of people it is about socialising too, whether you are attending a party, attending an club night or you have arranged to meet others for drinks you will most definatly be eating, drinking and chatting. Getting to know someone is almost essential before engaging in sexual activities.
Will swinging ruin my relationship/marriage?
Swinging is for couples in strong relationships who want to experiment and take their sexuality further, swinging can most definatly bring you closer together so the most common answer to this is no. If your relationship is already on rocky grounds it could be disastrous. Swinging will not fix a failing relationship.
What can we/I expect to get out of swinging.
Indulging in the swinging lifestyle can be just as exciting, erotic and fulfilling as you can imagine it to be. You and you partner can realise you most erotic fantasies safely, engage in sexual relations with another couple, enjoy a group or share a 3rd person in a threesome, along the way you will met new friends and interesting people.
Swinging for the right people can greatly enhance your relationship and your personal life. However swinging is not for everyone and you must discuss fully with your partner factors like self-esteem, jealousy and any relationship problems before you enter into this lifestyle as any major doubts could lead to bad feelings in the future.
Take it slow you must be ready to enjoy the benefits that this lifestyle has to offer you, and always remember swinging is to enhance and already solid relationship and not to repair a damaged one.
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