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Your Profile
Make sure you take some time to write and create an enticing profile, firstly when writing your advert include the following information:-
A few sentences about you and your partner(if you have joined as a cple that is).
A description of what you are like.
Your level of swinging experience.
What you are looking to find in other swinger partners.
Your likes and dislikes.
The times that are best for you to set up meetings
And any other information that will make your profile appealing to other members.
Make it Easy to read and include everything that you require out of your swinging encounters.
Remember it is very important that you check the spelling and grammar on your profile. If it looks like that you have taken no effort at all and it has been quickly thrown together then you will struggle to meet genuine people.
Your Pictures.
Ok so you have written the perfect profile, but without pictures you will get very little success. Pictures are a massively important part of your profile and the quality and amount of photos you add will increase your chance of success. A single cock shot or Vaginal shot is not what we want to see on your photos. Put in some time and effort with you photos make them sexy (remember it may help you to win an invite to our swingers holidays at the same time) and get other members attention. You don’t need to show you face on the shots, but make sure you apply a good mix of shots weather this is clothed/unclothed or action/intimate shots. Make sure if you are a cple you add pictures of both partners.
Contacting Members Thought The Profile System.
So you have found a member you like the look of, you can now register your interest in the member a cple of ways, firstly you can directly email the member. Take the time to read the person's profile that you are contacting. Let them know this by making reference to points raised in there profile. E.g. "We are both in our thirties as well and consider ourselves a professional couple. We note that you are looking to meet on Friday nights and we live near you and can accommodate" etc... Above all you must be honest in your profile, pictures or any correspondence If you get chatting to someone and you describe yourself falsely, when you meet you will not get the required outcome. Honesty really is the best policy.
If you don’t want to be as direct as an email you can add their profile to your favourites list, the website will automatically inform the member that you have added them to your favourites so they know that you are interested in their profile, and who knows this could spark a response from them.
If you are shy or new you might just want to send a wink to the member you are interested in and again this tells the member you are interested in their profile and again could spark a reply from them.
Chatroom.
The chatroom is a great place to get to know other swingers and meet people, use this feature on a regular basis and get to know people. Again be honest and considerate in there don’t just go in asking for sex as this wont get you anywhere. People like to talk about themselves and will warm to you far better if you start your conversations in a non sexual manner.
Forum
Post in the forum, this is a great way to get people to read your profile and contact you. Remember that "I am a great shag and want lots of birds tonight" might not get you the reply that you are looking for. However interesting topics asking for feedback from members generally goes down very well.
Contact New Members
A good way to get quick replies to your e-mail is to contact the newest members on the site. You will almost certainly get a reply to an e-mail if you are the first person to read their profile and send them an e-mail while they are initially on the site. You can find the newest members in the members link at the top of the page.
Attend A Party Or Club
Why not try attending a private party hosted by one of our members, Generally this is a proven and tested approach to meeting like minded people in your area. You can also think about hosting your own party you can even mail people telling them to have a look at it. Once again it is a nice introduction to get to know them.
There are also many clubs around the country catering for your needs as a swinger and are again a great way to meet other swingers, remember you are not under any pressure to play and you can take it at your own pace. Have a look at the club list and there will be a club in your area, ask for some advice in the chatrooms about clubs members will be more than happy to share their advice.
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